webangel:

hey. hey. when you’re in a relationship you CAN NOT do things like threatening to self harm or even kill yourself when something goes wrong and you dont want to talk about it 

thats manipulation. you’re trying to manipulate your SO into backing down and doing/saying what you want them to do, whether you notice it or not. you’re teaching your SO they cant argue or defend themselves bc theres the danger of you hurting yourself

stop doing that. there’s literally no excuse for it.