- If they say “I had a bad day,” what does that usually mean happened?
- Who’s the first person they would turn to for help?
- Who’s the last person they would turn to for help?
- Is there anyone they would kill? Could they actually do it?
- Would they rather split a big task into pieces, or do it all at once?
- Do they delegate tasks well?
- Are they a leader or a follower?
- Do they mediate or stir up shit?
- Be honest: how much do they like drama?
- Have they ever been in love?
- Have they ever been awake so long they hallucinated?
- What’s the worst insult they’ve ever gotten, and who said it?
- What’s the worst insult they’ve ever given, and who did they say it to?
- Would they rather talk to or about someone they hate?
- What do they lead with when they’re asked “tell me about yourself?”
- Are they single now? Any plans on changing that?
- What’s the one trait they’ve worked the hardest to change about themselves? Has it worked?
- Do they believe in anything based on faith alone (God or gods, magic, spirits, souls)? Do they respect people who do not believe?
- Do they reject beliefs based on faith alone (God or gods, magic, spirits, souls)? Do they respect people who do believe?
- Do they have any pets? Did they grow up with pets? Do they want future pets?
- What’s the worst thing a history book 100 years from now could write about them?
- Would they rather blend in or stand out?
- At a party, do they stand at the sides of the room or go to the center?
- Are they always or never late?
- Do they think before they speak?
- Would they be more likely to trust a gut feeling or a map?
- What’s the worst they’ve ever been injured?
- What’s the sickest they’ve ever been?
- Would they rather plan extensively or go with the flow?
- They need to make a big speech. Do they write it down or speak from the heart?
- What would they say in their wedding vows to anyone they could see themselves partnering with?
- Do they need to socialize to recharge after loneliness or be alone to recharge after socializing?
- Would a lot of roommates, all close friends, in a small space be a dream or a nightmare for them?
- Do they believe that everyone has broken the law once or twice?
- Do they believe that most people would screw over a friend if offered a large enough reward?
- Would they screw over a friend for a large enough reward?
- What’s their idea of a great party?
- Would they try anything once?
- What’s their definition of a “tranquil” afternoon?
- If they’ve got to go somewhere potentially dangerous, do they take someone with them or do they go alone?
- Would their friends describe them as impulsive? Would they describe themselves as impulsive?
- Do they have too-high self esteem, too-low self esteem, or are they pretty in the middle?
- Do they dream of retirement, or do they think it sounds boring?
- Do they have physical disabilities? In what ways do those affect them?
- Do they have mental health issues? In what ways do those affect them?
- If a friend is sad, what’s their go-to instinct to make them feel better?
- What’s the worst thing they could lose?
- Are they often lost in thought? Do they get irritated with others for getting lost in thought?
- When learning a new skill, do they ask a lot of questions to ensure getting it right the first time, or would they rather try it out and fix anything that went wrong?
- Who would they trust first: someone who has read 1,000 books or someone who has been 1,000 places?
I’m trying to get back into the oc frame of mind – please send me asks about them?