irrevocably-illogical:

myothertardisisonthemun:

straightboyfriend:

telling ppl attracted to men that there are no good men out there or that men can’t love only normalizes poor treatment from men & doesn’t do anything helpful

#the idea that all men are naturally garbage is super unhelpful#because it absolves awful men of the responsibility to be better

• #it also discourages men who do want to improve their behaviour but don’t know how
• #by convincing them that they’ll be reviled no matter what they do
• #learning how to change involves leaving confort zones
• #and making yourself vulnerable by approaching other people’s spaces for advice