How to handle your panic attacks and anxiety attacks, step by step.
- Retreat. If you feel phobic, exit the situation until anxiety subsides. Retreat is a temporary leave until you feel better. Escape can reinforce your phobia.
- Talk to another person. This helps get your mind off of symptoms and anxious thoughts.
- Move around. Dissipates extra energy/adrenaline created by fight-or-flight reaction. Instead of resisting, you move with it.
- Stay in the present. Focus on concrete objects around you in your immediate environment. Try actually touching objects.
- Engage in a simple repetitive activity.
- unwrap and chew gum
- count
- snap rubber band
- sing
- wet towel on face
6. Do something that requires focused concentration.
- read a book or magazine
- puzzles
- knit/sew
- write
7. Express anger. If you can physically express anger rather than just talking, you may be able to stop the panic attack before it blows up.
- pound on a pillow or your bed
- beat a pillow or cushion with a bat
- scream into pillow
8. Experience something immediately pleasurable.
- be held
- pleasurable snack/meal
- hot shower or bath
9. Visualize a comforting person/scene.
10. Practice thought stopping.
- take a deep breath then internally or externally say, “Stop”!
- replace anxious thoughts with calming and supportive statements (“I am calm. I am strong”).
- snap a rubber band or splash cold water to disrupt thoughts
11. Practice abdominal breathing. Breathe slowly and deeply from your abdomen.
12. Practice muscle relaxation.
- clench fists. Hold for 10 seconds, release and repeat.
- tighten/raise shoulders up, hold 10 seconds, release.
13. Repeat positive coping statements.
14. Use breathing or relaxation in combination with coping statements.
Source: The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook by Bourne